Learning His Ways

Early on I started noticing Owen would like certain textures and sounds better than others. One of the first times I really figured it out was when we were walking by a building and he stuck his hand out to feel the rough texture. Then he didn’t want to leave it. He could stand there for a half hour and be content. I would often walk Owen by the building to see what he would do, it was always the same reaction, he wanted to touch the building. It was like a calming effect for him. As time has gone on I’ve learned more and more textures that sooth him and some that stay away from because they just seem to stress him out. My friend helped put together a texture book for Owen and I take it places with me when I think he might be stressed. 

I haven’t learned why some stores seem to stress Owen out and others he can handle for a longer period of time. It is always a learning experience for me. I wonder sometimes if it is the lighting or even the way the shelves are designed. 

The hardest part sometimes is when he is just truly upset and I have to finish what I’m doing. I just want to comfort him but it is so hard to explain that we need groceries or that I have to go to the drug store. 

Thankful I have learned how to tell more of his triggers and I try to give him comfort early on. This journey is forever changing and I’m thankful for the people that understand Owen and help me do things for him. Acceptance is a beautiful thing and I’m thankful for the people that love and support us both!